How Your Attitude Is Impacting Your Life

Attitude is everything. A small but very powerful statement. Your attitude about work, family, friends, eating, can drastically alter how your relationships. Negative and pessimistic attitudes impact more than just your relationship, they impact your mental wellbeing, your physical wellbeing, and have a drastic impact on your life. 

Research has shown a link between emotional vitality—characterized by enthusiasm, hopefulness, engagement in life, and the ability to face life’s stresses with emotional balance and a substantially reduced risk of heart attack and stroke. 

Negativity spreads much in the say way a contagious cold does. Scientific research reported on in Wired states, “feelings circulate in patterns analogous to what’s seen from epidemiological models of disease.” 

Negativity also affects our ability to think clearly and restricts our memories. “Negativity compromises the effectiveness of the neurons in the hippocampus, an important area of the brain responsible for reasoning and memory.”People like to surround themselves with like-minded people. And if you are constantly emitting negative thoughts and outlooks, the only people you’ll attract will be others doing the same. And your chances of getting out of this cycle becomes increasingly difficult.

Indications of a Negative Mindset 

• Seeing the worst in people 

• Anticipating negative outcomes without reason 

• Seeking others to blame 

• Magnifying the negative aspects of a situation and filtering out positive ones 

• Turning a bad situation into a personal failure when the situation that occurred had nothing to do with your personal actions 

Once you start to recognize the patterns, it can be easy to spot negative trends toward others. But negative thoughts and attitudes towards yourself are more detrimental to your life because self-negativity often goes overlook and unchecked. 

There is a link between positive thinking and effective stress management. Researchers have found several health benefits to positive thinking: 

• Lower stress levels 

• Increased life span 

• Lower rates of depression 

• Better resistance to colds 

• Healthier psychological and physical well-being 

• Better cardiovascular health

• Better coping skills during times of hardship

Positive thinking and an optimistic attitude isn’t walking around with your head in the clouds ignoring any potential pain or negative thought. It is about dealing with these negative circumstances in a productive way. The first place to start when it comes to living a more positive life is looking at self-limiting beliefs and negative self speak. 

Self-speak are the thoughts you think to yourself throughout the day. It’s what you told yourself about the outfit you tried on this morning, it’s what you said to yourself as you headed into that big meeting. It’s what you told yourself as you rejected that phone call from your mother. 

Self-limiting beliefs are the negative thoughts we have and tell ourselves during self-speak. Like how that outfit was unflattering because your torso is

too short and too flabby in that shirt. Or how you’re totally unprepared for this meeting and you’re boss won’t like your findings. Or how you’re mother is just going to nag you on all your life choices for the week so you can’t even bother dealing with her right now. 

These negative thoughts that we say to ourselves limit our potential. If you say something enough or hear something enough times, you will start to believe it. You will start to embody that trait. And it is so easy to fall into that trap with negative thoughts. 

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